A couple of weeks ago, I signed up for a fun online Q & A site called Formspring. You can ask your “friends” questions (with your name or anonymously) and then see the answers. Feel free to go there and ask away and once a week I will post some of the questions and answers here.
What’s the first thing that you usually notice about someone you meet?
Usually their eyes. I think eyes can tell a lot about a person. Their intentions, their level of honesty, the willingness to be open, etc. A good smile also helps win me over, but I definitely love looking people right in the eye 🙂
What’s the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning?
The first thing? Probably “Just a few more minutes! That dream was getting so hot!”
When you fail so hard that you want to crawl up in a ball and die, how does Daddy help you to feel better?
Well, I have only had one Daddy for a short time. And it did happen once last summer. He let me have a little bit of time to fall apart and cry. But then he curled up behind me and held me in bed. He ran his fingers through my hair and reassured me that I was doing my best and that was what he wanted. He and I actually wrote about it here.
But, now that we are not together, the strength to pick myself back up has to come from inside me. And that has been tough since it is only recent that we parted ways. But I keep the faith that all the lessons he taught me, I can also keep close and remember when I find someone else.
What is the one thing sexually you have not tried, afraid to try and have watched and it intrigues you?
I am sure there are lots of things out there I haven’t tried that I would like to. The one thing I think about lately is being with two men at the same time. My most recent D talked about sharing me and making me please other men for his pleasure, but we never got there. I think I would have really enjoyed doing that for him and being able to please more than one man at a time.
If you could erase a single thing from your memory bank, what would it be?
I am not sure that I would. Everything we experience, even bad things, shape who we are. And, if I didn’t remember or the bad thing that happened, I would fear I might actually repeat it. At least if I remember the bad along with the good, as long as I have learned from everything, I think it is best to experience it all, and then some!
Once a sub/slave has experienced D/s, do you think she could go back to a vanilla lifestyle, or will something always be missing?
A great question, but not one I feel I have enough experience with to answer as well as I would like. I am fairly new to discovering this submissive side to myself. I am enjoying every minute of it and definitely enjoy exploring and pushing limits I never knew I could. It is also intense on me emotionally, but it makes everything that much more satisfying. My lifestyle is pretty vanilla, but do I really think I could go back to a more vanilla sex life? I think if I had to, maybe? But I also believe that this is truly who I was meant to be and even in a more vanilla sex life, parts would just seep through. I know I would miss the erotic nature of it all if I wasn’t engaging in a D/s sexual relationship.
I’ve had a crush on you for awhile but I couldn’t admit it.. I took a picture of your name written on my body and put it here: [insert the random website here] sign up and search for SubLilGirl guess who i am.
Umm .. although I appreciate the flattery, I find it highly doubtful that you truly know who I am and even MORE doubtful that you wrote my name on your body. Plus – I am just not the type to blindly click on random links. But thanks for the thoughts 😉